Wednesday, January 25, 2012

A Rough Week

Last Tuesday my Mom became ill and after a day in the ER, it was decided to put her in the hospital until she got better. Needless to say, it was a very stressful week. The good news is that she is better and back at home this week.

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I worry about my Mom … a lot. She is 82 years old and very independent. She lives alone and does very well for herself. But I worry. I can’t help it.

I guess what happens, is that our roles do reverse as we age. I have become the Mom. And when things don’t go as they should, I take the responsibility on myself.

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I spent almost every waking minute at the hospital, and it was a good thing I did. Many elderly people just don’t know how to ask for what they need. Even the most basic things.

My little teddy bear life has been on hold for a bit. And that is as it should be. As hard as it is for my Mom to accept, she is my priority. I would do anything for her.

I feel very blessed to have her in my life and to be able to share “old age” with my “little Mom.”

I love you, Mom!

5 comments:

  1. Sending grateful prayers for "Mom's" recovery - and richest blessings to both of you. Being one of the lucky ones who has actually met your Mom, I know you enrich each other's lives. And so cool to see Spock2 too!!

    Love and hugs from Billie

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  2. Bless you both! Glad your mom is better and that she has you to care for her. xx

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  3. Oh I'm so sorry to hear that! I'm glad your Mom is on the mend and I hope you are able to get some rest. I'm sure all this snow isn't helpful either. Take care!

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  4. Vicki -

    I'm so sorry to hear that your mom wasn't doing so well last week, but I'm sure glad she's feeling better. I'll be sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. I love the pictures of your mom, especially the one with both of you. Please let her know she has lots of people on the internet sending her good vibes. :)

    Hugs,
    Tracy Screaming Sardine

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  5. Thank you all for your thoughts. It really means a lot to me for you to take the time to comment. I've passed this on to Mom and I'm sure it will make her day.

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